• Sorrow Gives Way to Soft-focus Memories

    “Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, glory in the flower, we will grieve not, but rather gain strength from what remains behind.” William Wordsworth Letting go of anything or anyone we truly love…

  • When you can’t take a pie, send a note.

    In the South, when someone dies, people take food to the grieving family. Organized or disorganized, the troops rally and food shows up. Enough to feed Cox’s Army. Feed the family. Take their concern for preparing meals off the…

  • Sympathy notes are hard

    Most purchased sympathy cards have a serene image on the front and an inside message intended to spare you the trouble of having to put words to the pain of loss. If all you do is sign your name…