Sorrow Gives Way to Soft-focus Memories

“Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, glory in the flower, we will grieve not, but rather gain strength from what remains behind.”

William Wordsworth

Letting go of anything or anyone we truly love leaves a jagged tear in our heart.

Only by remembering what was good, what made us love in the first place soothes like a balm.

Healing. Strength. Comfort.

Memories soften the edges of pain as we dwell on what was good, what was fun and funny, and feelings that can never be taken away.

“The memory of all that, No, no they can’t take that away from me.”

George and Ira Gershwin

Notes sent to someone grieving a loss can refresh memories of their loved one, especially as you take time to capture just one moment you remember.

The words you write validate their grief and at the same time reinforce what that loved one contributed not only to their life, but also to the lives of others.

Though nothing can bring back a person we loved, words that express the feelings for that person can bring a smile, a tear, the assurance that we are not alone in our sorrow.

Take a moment to write a note to someone who experienced a loss recently or in the past year. Or write to recall the anniversary of their loss.

As Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays approach, no matter how long ago a person’s loved one died, the words “Thinking of you” arrive with fresh potency.

Grief has no expiration date. Sorrow comes in waves.

Your handwritten words make a difference.